Career

 There is lot of confusion about making career among young generation and their parent also .Everyone want to know and verify whether the career and education they are getting or giving to their children is right or wrong . They all have a fear of failure . One  more important aspect is that they want to know whether they have choose the right education as per their capability. If you are also one of them below is the answer .

1.We are all.born with different capability and interest . Our finger print are also unique therefore immediately stop comparing yourself or your child with any other child.

2.identify your natural interest and find out if there is any system in your education that can enhance that perticular interest and in future you can also teach such kind of attribute to others so that it can be a earning option too...dont worry if it will pay you less but it will make your life happy and cheerful and this the the ultimate achievement .only money will not justify your life .

3. If you drop a fish on ground ,she will die thinking that she has no capability as swimming in water its natural quality,it cant run or survive on ground.

Likewise if you throw a monkey or any animal who  cant  swim into the water,it will die thinking that he has no capability

But if you drop a fish into water and monkey on a tree they both will equally capable

Fish will live its life happily in water  and monkey will also live its life with joy on a tree

Likewise all children born with different interest and capability,dont ruin their life while compelling them to become like others.

How to identify their naturl intetest

1. Spend quality time with your children.

2. Stop watching tv,reading news paper if it is not required in your profession or for preparation of any exam ..the time you will.save can spend with your children and family it will give you a glimpse of natural capability of your children then you can take right decision.

3.involve with your kids for multiple task like gardening,dancing,singing,playing,meditation,yoga alonewith their academic studies

4. Give the kids  some descision making and take advice from them while dealing any family crisis or problem 

5.Dont make the children realise that money is too easy and give them plenty of money for their extravagance need ,this will ruin their life .

To be contnued .....

Parenting

If you have small kids ,finding the answer whether you are giving them what is best for their career and life ask following questions to yourself 

Before any advice always remember

The best thing you can give your children is an atmosphere filled with love,kindness and compassion

1. Whether you cry over your children- stop it as children are not your slave they are a different life no doubt they are born with your help ,still they deserve a free and independent life

2.How often parent fight before their children-if yes stop it .Before you advice your children not to fight each other ,parent should stop fighting with each other .

3. If you want your children to stop watching TV or using electronic gasstes ,parent should implement it on self otherwise children will not follow you,if you will compel them they will oversuse it when they will grow older then  they will not listen your good advice also .

4. Dont ask your children to fulfill your dreams as they are not a instrument to complete your dreams ,let them live the life of their dream infact dont ask them.to have a dream as dream destroy the joy of life and when dream break the child also can break ,at that time you will have no control over his mindset.

To be continued 

GOAL OF LIFE

 IF YOU ARE IN SEARCH OF GOAL OF LIFE THIS IS THE RIGHT PLACE TO GET THE ANSWER OF THIS QUESTION. YOUR ALL DOUBT WOULD GET CLEAR AFTER READING THIS ARTICLE .

AS LIFE IS NOT A SIMPLE PHENOMENON .IT IS OUT OF OUR CONTROL,WE CAN CHOOSE A PERSONAL GOAL,PROFESSIONAL GOAL,SOCIAL GOAL AND ECONOMICAL GOALS BUT THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS LIFE GOAL.

LIVE A LIFE WITHOUT ANY GOAL,LIVE THE PRESENT MOMENT COMPLETELY FILLED WITH LOVE,KINDNESS AND COMPASSION

BEING IN PRESENT MOMENT IS THE REAL GOAL OF LIFE.

IF YOU ARE FEELING OVERLOADED IN YOUR LIFE WITH LOT OF THINGS THEN ITS TIME TO SAY GOODBYE TO ALL OF YOUR WORRIES-TRY THIS TECHNIQUE

"DROP ALL YOUR GOALS FOR 1 WEEK AND LIVE ONLY IN PRESENT MOMENT AFTER 1 WEEK YOU CAN SEE A CLEAR PEACE IN YOUR MIND"

STOP DOING ALL ACTIVITY THAT ARE NOT DIRECTLY CONTRIBUTING TO YOUR LIFE FOR EXAMPLE

1. STOP WATCHING TV-GIVE THIS TIME TO YOUR CHILDREN ,OR FAMILY

2. STOP READING NEWS PAPER-IF IT NOT REQUIRED FOR YOUR ANY EXAM PREPRATION.

3.LIMITED USAGE OF MOBILE OR ANY ELECTRONIC GASSET.

4.START MEDITATION,YOGA OR EXERCISE WHATEVER YOU LIKE -DO IT WITH YOUR FAMILY